How sexual frustration can cause overweight by women. Why the sexual needs of fat women are denied.
Many of us long for the lifetime commitment to start a family. But for some this might remain just a dream. Yes, people fall in love, but those feelings are not always mutual.
We all have this kind of picture perfect of an ideal partner in mind. Most people do not fit in and we might like them as friends, but we do not feel like committing to them romantically.
Now when you meet somebody that really sets your heart on fire, but this person does not want you, this is hard for all of us, but if this happens to you every time this feeling strikes you, is becomes tragic.
When you are fat and female and do not have to money to attract a partner, it becomes double hard.
Many settle down with second choice. Take what you can get and make the best of it. Perfect relationships do not exist, but if a relationship with second best also does not work out, being single again can be double though.
For women there is an extra problem: they have a biological clock. If they really like to have a family and kids, but no man wants them, it is double hard once they are over thirty.
Many of them become depressed and might get addiction problems, to fill in the lack of not having a partner. Some start drinking, others get eating disorders, but in the end many also commit suicide. Yes, the weight problem might be caused by the frustration of being alone.
That is the problem: many men are so shallow, that they only see the outside of a woman.
Many women try diet after diet, but become yoyos and end up more overweight in the end, since they stop loving themselves. It is hard to love yourself when nobody else does.
It is hard to get comments about your looks all the time. Getting rejected and having nobody to hold, makes the need for comfort eating higher.
Now you can tell this women how they need to lose weight. Most likely they know the caloric value count better than anybody and they are often motivated to lose weight, but to frustrated to do so.
Their real problem is sexual frustration and unfulfilled intimate desires. They might like and love a man, but that feeling is seldom mutual.
Yes, many men do not like fat women and will easily turn them down. Some men might like fat women, but that does not mean the woman also liked them. This is already so with normal looking women, but even harder for overweight ones.
That is also why many single women who do lose weight after surgery also do gain weight again, by getting different addictions. Their real problem is not solved. They might have their ideal weight, but they still long for a partner.
Instead of giving that money to a doctor, they could better have hired a gigolo. Yes,paid sex might still be better than remaining frustrated and it might raise their selves-esteem.
Single overweight women are often sexually denied and eating is often a way to get rid of their frustration. If there is no man to hold, there is still a candy bar.
It is also proven that chocolate offers sex related pleasure hormones. So many women just grow fat because they do not get laid and instead of just blaming them, also look at what society is like today: sex is being promoted everywhere and is easy to get when you have the money or the looks, but not when you are poor, lack the looks and might have the heart to commit.